1. in good hands

    i have been really impressed with riley’s new vet. i switched in the fall of last year because after we moved, our old vet’s location would have been a logistical nightmare, and i didn’t love her anyway.

    i spoke to him on the phone this morning and he explained the inconclusive results from the blood test riley had last week for possible ovarian remnant syndrome [not as serious as it sounds — it’s basically a botched spay job, leaving portions of the lady parts intact, which leads to exactly the symptoms you’d guess]. we decided on the next steps and i went on with my day.

    he called me again this afternoon and said that after he saw riley last week, he brought up her case with a group of veterinarians that specialize in animal reproductive systems to get additional advice, since her symptoms and data are a bit convoluted at this point. they discussed it today and one of the colleagues explained her method for reaching a diagnosis [or not] in the past that tends to be more definitive than the additional blood testing we were going to do.

    he explained her idea to me, why he agreed with it, and what the process would be if i wanted to go that route. it made a lot of sense to me, and even though it might involve getting some samples and making cytology slides at home [!], i am on board. and he is staying late today so that i can bring riley in after work to get started.

    i really appreciated him going the extra mile to put some thought into her case and seek advice from those more experienced. i’d love to get this all figured out and it’s nice to have riley’s vet be pro-active to help that happen for us.

    [we go to southpoint animal hospital, if you’re local and looking for a good vet. so far, the whole staff has been wonderful]

     

  2. grab bag | a spotify playlist 

    absolutely no theme — just some recent ear candy. hope you enjoy!

    keep together | hunter hunted

    carnavalito | toubab krewe

    come to me | tricky

    22 | night beds

    vengeance is sleeping | neko case

    madness | muse

    i got a right ta | common + pharrell williams

    it’s too late | otis redding

    tessellate | alt-j

    o’ be joyful | shovels & rope

    let me follow you down | bob dylan

    do it again | camera obscura

    let’s stay in | hilde louise abjornson

    aquemini | outkast

    i don’t recall | lavender diamond

    cause | rodriguez

     

  3. wake county cooler | recipe via the very delicious fox liquor bar in raleigh, nc | featured in bon appetie’s june issue

     

  4. hi! i’m still here [riley is too]. here’s the skinny around these parts…

    - my day off yesterday was the business. i [finally] had a good night of sleep, my voice is rested + almost back to normal, i went for my first run in about a week, i got 12 of 13 items on my inevitable to-do list done, and even got in a couple of hours of reading + sun at the pool.

    - i haven’t heard from the vet yet following up from riley’s blood test. it’s not late yet, but you know, anxious dog mom.

    - we go to chicago on saturday! [special thank you to mr. c’s parents, who are taking care of riley while we’re gone]

    - i’m already looking forward to next wednesday, when i get to catch up with some of my favorite gals. it’s been too long!

    how have you been? what have i missed?

     


  5. type A forever

    i took today off work — for much needed rest and a delayed sick day [though my voice is slowly coming back!] it’s amazing what a good night’s sleep will do for your outlook.

    but sure enough, by the time i’ve finished my coffee, i have a to-do list 13 items long of what i’d like to accomplish today.

    the life of a type A personality: do not pass go and do not, under any circumstances, find yourself in complete relaxation and/or without a list.

     


  6. not the typical friday [or, updates]

    -riley’s vet visit last night was…interesting. her symptoms did not turn out to be what i expected and she endured the additional poking and prodding like a champ. $300 later, i had started the process to find out if she has this [which would apparently not be a big deal, just need to know] and i needed a hefty glass bowl of wine.

    -i woke up this morning with no voice. those pesky allergies must have turned into something. but i’m sounding less like a man as the day goes on, so that’s a plus.

    -hopefully i’ll be up to keeping our friday night plans: picking up some wine at cave taureau and spending some time at the american tobacco outdoor concert — the first of the season and only a stone’s throw away. then dinner [oven roasted tomatoes served over toasted bread and herbed ricotta] at home. and an early bedtime to prepare for work tomorrow.

    -i started re-reading the great gatsby so i can see the movie soon

    how’s everyone’s friday going?

     

  7. bring the lab gloves, leave your dignity.

     


  8. remember when we got married? that was awesome.
    — 

    mr. c, this morning. 

    today has not been all bad.

     

  9. palmar tent lodge at red frog beach — where we’re staying for four days in bocas del toro, panama. a fancy tent in the jungle on the beach! it may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but i am decidedly stoked. 

    it’s on my mind because today is for the birds:

    i woke up with a head full of allergies and in a daze from lack of sleep. there was no sugar for the coffee. i accidentally left my lunch in the car. this work week has already run me a little ragged, and since i’m working saturday and sunday, the weekend is decidedly not near. riley has been having some symptoms that need to get checked out [shouldn’t be anything serious] so i have a last minute appointment with the vet tonight. for which i need to collect a urine sample. so that’s fun.

    thus the break to look at photos of a paradise we’ll be seeing before too long. 

    hope everyone’s having a nice thursday!

     

  10. throw in a dinner of kale chips + leftovers, and you’re looking at the wild time that was my monday night.

     


  11. Anonymous asked: What type of camera do you use? I love your photos!

    thank you! i have a canon rebel xs and i usually use a 50mm f/1.4 lens — which is the part that actually makes the photos look good. if you can deal with the fixed focal length, it’s a great lens to have!

     


  12. burritosbrosandbooskis asked: Where do you buy Triangle Brewery in Durham? (non saturday tour time)

    hi! sorry for the delayed response on this. 

    i know for sure that alivia’s, james joyce, motorco, tobacco road, and dos perros have triangle brewery beers on tap.

    to bring it home with you, check out sam’s quik shop. i’ve also spotted it at a couple harris teeters in the area.

    and for anyone who hasn’t done triangle’s brewery tour yet, i recommend it.

    cheers!

     

  13. this weekend…

    …we celebrated a graduation, mother’s day, and an [early] birthday. that’s a lotta cheersin’!

    congratulations, sister H + mom, we love you!

     

  14. physical therapy school graduation this weekend for little sis — great work + congrats + cheers!

    [she + i are in the back photo, circa ~1990 and my mom + her older sister are in the front photo, circa ~1960]

     


  15. after thinking about my food-centric, non-existant twittering yesterday

    i decided to start fresh with twitter. mostly because FOMO.

    does that even mean anything if you don’t have a smart phone? probably not, but wish me luck.